Guy gets mad. Guy finally has the epiphany. Being vulnerable in your interactions will do wonders. So do you know what to do? Open up. Talk about yourself. What are your passions? What are your hobbies? What was your childhood like? One night I was out with some buddies, locked eyes with a girl, and immediately went up and hugged her. She hugged me back, and thought I was hilarious. We got to talking, and eventually we really hit it off.

I was confident, if not outright cocky, and she was eating it up. She was afraid. Yeah, I seemed cool, but who knows—I could be a freaking serial killer for all she knew. So what did I do? I opened up to her. I just started talking about who I am. I was vulnerable. After half an hour or so of this type of conversation, she actually invited me back to HER place. She pulled ME. Again, this was because I was vulnerable. This is the attitude that you must take.

That also reminds me of another time that I had a girl try to pull me. I was out at a night club in DC, and saw some creepy ass looking mother fucker with a pedophile beard lurking around. I noticed that he was walking around and kept getting awkwardly close to girls, but he tried to act like it was an accident—then I saw it. I walked up to one of the girls who he just did this to, and asked her if she knew him. Immediately her eyes lit up, and it was like I could read her mind.

I grabbed her by the hand and took her to the bouncer. We explained what happened, and then pointed out the creeper who was upskirting girls. He got kicked out. The girl was actually so turned on that she started hitting on me and wanted to go home with me.

Again, I can immediately tell what some of you guys are probably thinking. What I was doing on the other hand, was something entirely different. I saw a guy who looked like a fucking creep, and to be honest was kind of upset that the bouncer even let him in. Try to realize the complexity of the situation and see reality for all of the multiple layers that it has. Yes, false rape accusations happen. Yes, there is rape hysteria in some places.

Yes, some men are serial abusers who should be shot in the back of the head. Yes, many rapes and sexual assaults go unreported due to fear or guilt. So be genuine. Be nice. Be open to them. Make her laugh. Have fun with her. As always if you guys have any comments, questions, or concerns, feel free to leave them down below.

Jon, you put great content out and help your fellow men. But for this particular post you deserve to be given a hard time. Whenever you want to see if something is sexist, reverse the genders and see how it sounds. Now reverse the genders and see how it sounds. Leftists talk about social constructs a lot but they fail to realize that social conditioning goes both ways. Zach, thanks for the complement and constructive criticism.

Thank you for writing this, i can confirm this is true! At least for myself and other women i know. After dropping out of college to pursue my dreams, I started this blog as a way to help other men do the same. It contains 7 actionable steps you can start implementing right now, to start becoming more attractive to women today. Our understanding of mental health has changed drastically over the past decade, and consequently, so has our treatment.

Whereas doctors used to often simply prescribe. Although the idea. I appreciate good coffee; I enjoy it. The past year has been a complete whirlwind for me. Share on Facebook. Share on LinkedIn. Share on twitter. Share on Reddit. Why Girls Are Rude to You And What to Do About It. categories: Women. Table of Contents hide. Her Reality. Alpha Males. Share this with your Friend:. Leave your comment. Notify of. new follow-up comments new replies to my comments. Newest Oldest Most Voted. And then there was Saturday.

While I could have done without the multiple Al Gore appearances, Live Earth certainly lived up to its billing - as did our Live Approach Training. and as promised, here's a shout out to the girls from IU! But our most valuable lesson of the day other than some environmental stuff that only Stephen can understand came from the approach that DIDN'T work.

Right before Ludacris took the stage, our row was blessed with the presence of a group of four three women and their gay friend , including the girl you see here on the right. This girl had attitude right from the beginning, even going as far as not moving out of the way as other people were trying to get by.

A bunch of us in the row were chatting when they sat down and we tried to include them, but they weren't having it. Not surprisingly, Stephen makes his move Stephen: pointing to a tattoo on the girl's right ankle "What does that say? Friend: "Can you, like, move down please? You are in one of OUR seats" Stephen: "No one is sitting here" Friend: "Well, her BOYFRIEND isn't going to be too happy when he gets here" Stephen: gives her the 'yeah, sure' look Friend: "And by the way, your SHIRT is really FUNNY looking" Stephen: laughs it off, gives them that 'you guys are REALLY pathetic' look and turns away What you have to realize about people that react to you like this is that they have many other personal issues in their lives that have NOTHING to do with you.

Clinical psychiatrist Dr. Paul Dobransky gives us an EXCELLENT way to handle people that are unnecessarily rude and obnoxious to you. Rather than steal his thunder, watch the video below on "The Low Self-Esteem Comeback' Video taken from David Deangelo's 'Deep Inner Game', courtesy of YouTube I can tell you from personal experience, this comeback REALLY WORKS. As was the case with our Bullfighter Chick , when someone lashes out at you like this, it has nothing to do with you.

It's HER or his problem. Just remember not to try this on your boss! But that's another article for another day Save to Del.

Posted by -Alexander Stone and Stephen David at AM. Stephen- I enjoyed your talk. What else occurred at L. You had said you had another post up? I can't find it. Is it mixed with others?

Will you be expecting the same activities at Saw Doctors? I will try down loading a couple of their songs. No point in going if I think they suck. I also was impressed with how you worked the 2 girls at the "cafe".

Sorry we didn't get to really talk much. I am trying to get over my AA. Also, Alex's talk was good. I currently do not do the online dating, but I may try it out in the future. Hey Quiet Guy you can find the other Live Earth article here.

The reason we picked the Saw Doctors for our next Approach session is because of the friendly and festive atmosphere the band is notorious for creating did I mention the drunk Irish girls? Admittedly, I didn't really know much about them when I went to the last show - I was sold quickly.

Needless to say this conversation hit me like a ton of bricks. A lot of guys wonder why women are so rude to them. You have to walk through this pack of trained wolves, that probably wants to devour you, and hope that given the chance to eat you, their training will be able to override their instincts. How would you feel? Probably pretty paranoid, right? This is literally how girls feel all the time.

For a while I was pretty bitter over this type of thing. It was like I was guilty until proven innocent. So naturally, whenever someone brought up how often sexual assault occurs, my first reaction was of a visceral nature. It was like the curtain had been pulled up from over my eyes, and I could see the truth. People believe the woman. Yet reality is far more nuanced than this. Yes, false rape accusations are far more common than most people think. Yes, sexual assault is far more common than most people think.

Maybe she just met you. Maybe she wants to meet in public first, as Tinder dates often do. Yet again, put yourself in her shoes. On top of this, every single day you hear about some girl who was kidnapped, tortured, and raped, or some creep who abducted a woman and held her in his basement for 30 years. Imagine how scared you would be, KNOWING that he could literally rape you if he wanted to. Again, put yourself in her shoes—this is how she feels.

Nobody knows how this happened or who the men were. I can walk home from the club alone, who cares? As a girl however, if your phone is dead, you will not be able to get home safely without walking in a pack. Why do you think girls travel in packs everywhere? So what do you do about it? Game, in a nutshell, is simply having a high level of emotional and social intelligence.

I understand that learning game is complicated, which is why most guys suck at it, and why it takes so long to master. So they scour the internet looking for all kinds of dating advice, and get the typical talking points about being more confident. Yet what happens is predictable almost to a T. Guy is insecure and needy. Guy reads internet advice. Guy tries being confident. Guy gets more success. Guy hits roadblock.

Guy gets mad. Guy finally has the epiphany. Being vulnerable in your interactions will do wonders. So do you know what to do? Open up. Talk about yourself. What are your passions? What are your hobbies? What was your childhood like? One night I was out with some buddies, locked eyes with a girl, and immediately went up and hugged her. She hugged me back, and thought I was hilarious. We got to talking, and eventually we really hit it off.

I was confident, if not outright cocky, and she was eating it up. She was afraid. Yeah, I seemed cool, but who knows—I could be a freaking serial killer for all she knew. So what did I do? I opened up to her. I just started talking about who I am. I was vulnerable. After half an hour or so of this type of conversation, she actually invited me back to HER place.

She pulled ME. Again, this was because I was vulnerable. This is the attitude that you must take. That also reminds me of another time that I had a girl try to pull me. I was out at a night club in DC, and saw some creepy ass looking mother fucker with a pedophile beard lurking around. I noticed that he was walking around and kept getting awkwardly close to girls, but he tried to act like it was an accident—then I saw it.

I walked up to one of the girls who he just did this to, and asked her if she knew him. Immediately her eyes lit up, and it was like I could read her mind.

I grabbed her by the hand and took her to the bouncer. We explained what happened, and then pointed out the creeper who was upskirting girls. He got kicked out. The girl was actually so turned on that she started hitting on me and wanted to go home with me. Again, I can immediately tell what some of you guys are probably thinking. What I was doing on the other hand, was something entirely different.

I saw a guy who looked like a fucking creep, and to be honest was kind of upset that the bouncer even let him in. Try to realize the complexity of the situation and see reality for all of the multiple layers that it has. Yes, false rape accusations happen.

Yes, there is rape hysteria in some places. Yes, some men are serial abusers who should be shot in the back of the head. Yes, many rapes and sexual assaults go unreported due to fear or guilt. So be genuine. Be nice. Be open to them. Make her laugh. Have fun with her. As always if you guys have any comments, questions, or concerns, feel free to leave them down below. Jon, you put great content out and help your fellow men. But for this particular post you deserve to be given a hard time.

Whenever you want to see if something is sexist, reverse the genders and see how it sounds. Now reverse the genders and see how it sounds.

Leftists talk about social constructs a lot but they fail to realize that social conditioning goes both ways. Zach, thanks for the complement and constructive criticism. Thank you for writing this, i can confirm this is true! At least for myself and other women i know. After dropping out of college to pursue my dreams, I started this blog as a way to help other men do the same. It contains 7 actionable steps you can start implementing right now, to start becoming more attractive to women today.

Our understanding of mental health has changed drastically over the past decade, and consequently, so has our treatment. Whereas doctors used to often simply prescribe. Although the idea. I appreciate good coffee; I enjoy it. The past year has been a complete whirlwind for me. Share on Facebook. Share on LinkedIn.

Share on twitter. Share on Reddit.

I was confident, if not outright cocky, and she was eating it up. I will try down loading a couple of their songs. We explained what happened, and then pointed out the creeper who was upskirting girls. Online Dating Edge. Seriously dude, drop me an email anytime - I'll be happy to help you out. Maybe she wants to meet in public first, as Tinder dates often do. PLEASE CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS.

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